Myth Nine: Everyone
understands the need to get sustainable.
I’ll never
forget standing at the local school with a group of 4WDriving city mum’s who
were admiring their French nail polish jobs
while I hid my dirt rimmed jobs behind my back. One of them was
complaining about what to give the kids for breakfast and named a number of
processed off the shelf options. Me, being naturally stupid, laughed and said,
‘Yeah well,
if we want peanut butter on our toast I have to think about it three months in
advance, gotta grow it before we can eat it’.
Caleb's self made Lego tool to stop me feeding him pumpkin |
There was a
deathly silence, a shuffling of feet, a rolling of eyes and a nearly audible
internal dialogue from each of the mothers, something along the line of
‘whacko!’
I’m not
saying they’re wrong, but being driven to be as sustainable as possible in the
highest 4WD owning town in Australia was not a great conversation starter seven
years ago.
I used to
bike Caleb to school on my tip shop bought bike and he’s sit on the back and
pretend to shoot 4WD all the way to school. Some of them thought he was waving
and even waved back.
I tried to
barter my chook eggs for other staples in the neighbourhood but one neighbour
wouldn’t eat our eggs because the yolks were too orange and, ew, my nappiless
chooks had touched the ground. She much preferred to know they lived in cages,
well away from dirt.
I felt alone. But then I often felt my aloneness just
as keenly when I met up with other
sustainable folk – because I realised that it was a competition, and that the
only way to win is to trample someone else’s attempts at sustainability at
home. I hate to say it, but someone is
always greener than you. It’s not a
competition people, it’s a complementation.
Myth Ten : Organic
shmanic!
and after that... why it's all worth it!
2 comments:
I've never competed for anything myself. Mind you the odd bit of one upmanship can do a lot of good with the occasional 'normal' person.
viv in nz
By some standards I'd be way down the bottom and by others I'd be in the top half. By my standards I'm not as good as I will be but am better than I was. That's all we all need to aim for really.
Good posts on this this subject.
Barb.
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